FATHERS ARE ESSENTIAL FOR CIVILIZATION

 

FATHERS ARE ESSENTIAL FOR CIVILIZATION

By Domenick J. Maglio PhD. Traditional Realist

 

“All men are toxic” is a stupid perspective bordering on insanity. Even if a female came from either an absentee or abusive father, she probably interacted with a kind and healthy man sometime in her life. It could be a brother, son, co-worker, holy-man, teacher or acquaintance that entered her life. Each man is unique but all are genetically male. Obviously, there are sociopathic and saintly people of both genders. The concept of one gender being evil while the other is defenseless victims is ridiculous. It divides, not unites us.

 

Many radical feminists and Marxists are campaigning for the breakup of the patriarchal family. Their common alternative is an all-powerful totalitarian nanny state that would raise the children and provide for all their needs as they indoctrinate them to the virtues of totalitarianism. The elites will divide people into conflicting groups siding with one over the other to establish a new radical order.

 

Many females have been programed by Marxist group-think to detest traditional males. Attacking all males is a political act of irrationality by angry, dissatisfied and self-abusive females. These dysfunctional females do not want to change their unproductive thinking and behavior to better meet their own personal needs. Instead they fixate on all men as their enemy. They are encouraged by “women’s studies” and sophisticated women’s magazines to create a negative narrative about half of the population to convince others, and mostly themselves that all men are poisoning the rights and happiness of innocent, faultless females.

 

In the past men have been the primary economic providers, warriors and protectors of the family. Women were primarily the nurturers and managers of the home and children. Mothers demonstrate warm feelings, compassion and ensure a healthy environment.  Men were not about love and cuddly feelings, rather about emotional and physical toughness to survive in a difficult world. They were supposed to prepare their children for the duties and responsibilities of being a fully functioning adult in a rugged, competitive work environment.

 

Males were individuals who demonstrated perseverance in times of adversity. They are often less accommodating and tolerant than nurturing females. Men were stern, wanting things done in a specific manner. Most were more logical than driven by their emotions. They expected themselves and others to keep their word and do their duty in dangerous situations. Men were more demanding and less sympathetic toward human weakness. Fathers wanted their children and other adults to be emotionally and physically tough enough to obtain their personal objectives and goals. Many males still believe in these values and behaviors.

 

 If the child’s interaction is solely with a small, angry, feminist group where all men are excluded and considered toxic, they will develop a horrible opinion of males. The child will not be able to learn for themselves that half of our population has many positive virtues. This should not be denied to boys as they might be persuaded to hate their own nature and girls will not learn how to relate and appreciate males.

 

The lack of a father has been studied extensively and has been found to have many negative ramifications. Children who do not have a father figure or significant older male role model are at a great disadvantage in their lives.  In fatherless homes youngsters are more likely to be poor, involved in drugs and alcohol, drop out of school and have mental health problems. Boys without fathers are more likely to take part in crime and girls to become pregnant and runaways as teens.

 

Our children should not be deprived of a man in their lives and become casualties of the feminist war against men. Our children should be allowed to experience and learn from both genders. We all need both males and females for each brings different perspectives and knowledge to the public arena and directly to maturing children.   

 

Brainwashed, unfulfilled feminists who view all men as the enemy will irreparably damage our society. It is a repulsive sexist act for women to view males as negative role models. This view on its face is blatantly absurd since men are essential for the survival of any civilization. Males are half of our children, fathers, uncles, grandfathers, neighbors and for many females their partners and best friends. Men are essential for procreation, thus, human existence.

 

Radical feminists should look in the mirror and change what they can in their own lives to be at peace. Men are fundamental to the human race and will continue to contribute to society, making it a better place.

 

All children without fathers are at a significant disadvantage to learn positive character traits that they need to be successful in a vibrant society. Fathers’ no-nonsense role modeling of individual strength is the backbone of building and maintaining a strong, vibrant civilization.

 

 

 

Domenick Maglio, PhD. is a columnist carried by various newspapers, an author of several books and owner/director of Wider Horizons School, a college prep program. Dr. Maglio is an author of weekly newspaper articles, INVASION WITHIN  and a recent book entitled, IN CHARGE PARENTING In a PC World. You can see many of Dr. Maglio’s articles at www.drmaglioblogspot.com.