STUDENTS HAVE TO PERSEVERE TO DO WELL
STUDENTS HAVE TO PERSEVERE
TO DO WELL
By Domenick J. Maglio Phd.
Traditional Realist
Practically every parent of
a preschooler will announce to the school administrator that his or her child
is exceptionally smart. Usually they are correct since most children are very
knowledgeable and talented in certain areas but not all. Young children at this
early stage of development are able to absorb an incredible amount of material
very readily.
Many early bloomers continue
to find doing most activities easy and effortless but eventually they will “hit
a wall” where things become difficult. For the first time they have to devise
an approach to overcome something that challenges them. They have to learn the
process of focusing their energy to find a solution. This usually takes time
and stick-to-itiveness to grasp difficult material for these students. For the
first time they need to observe, study, try to improve and teach themselves many
new skills, which they never needed before. This decision to improve is a crucial
challenge that either they accept and confront their personal difficulty or
they pretend the problem does not affect them. If they do not address their
academic weaknesses they fall further and further behind. When the previously
advanced students give up by resting on their reputation as good students, the lack
of urgency to do better does not bode well for these previously bright
students.
Only 56% of college students
graduate after 6 years in college while almost half of these do not although most
have the ability to complete it in the traditional four years. The expression
that you can do anything you put your mind to include graduating from college.
The willingness to work hard for an extended length of time to reach goals is a
better predictor of students graduating from college than standardized test
scores, income levels or the parents graduated from college. In other words,
effort, perseverance, drive, determination, passion, will power and “grit” or
whatever you want to call it is the important variable of a student navigating
the hurdles and obstacles necessary to graduate from college. Too many college
students seem unwilling or unable to motivate and to do what is necessary to
push to get across the finish line.
Researcher, Angela Duckworth
of the University of Pennsylvania, studied thousands of public school
juniors. The study confirmed “grit” was
the most important variable to successfully completing college. She noted that
the same passion and perseverance was found in spelling bee contestants and
West Point cadets to excel in a fierce competitive environment. The Navy Seal
selection process is predicated upon the physical and mental tasks becoming extremely
difficult so that candidates will self select to leave the program. The warriors
who are left standing are the cream-of-the-crop possessing perseverance and are
better able to successfully complete missions.
“When the going gets tough,
the tough get going,” This phrase seems to sum up competitive winners in all
aspects of life. These go getters figure out every angle to have an edge.
Students who had to work hard to earn their grades in earlier years, unlike
those who were naturally bright and talented, had to teach themselves how to do
well. These previously average or failing students had to work hard to improve
their standing. Failure is a great teacher. They realize the importance of time
manage to optimize their available time and fill in many academic gaps. By carefully
studying, analyzing any and all tasks they become more efficient in retaining
information through specifically employing and developing memory techniques.
Most of these striving students create and meet deadlines in keeping their own
commitments to self and others. This produces positive work habits such as
reading instructions thoroughly, following directions and studying difficult
material until they comprehend the new concepts. Most understand they have to
self-reward to stay motivated for the long haul of completing their academic
studies using these techniques and others. By concentrated effort these
techniques turn failure into triumph.
As the students find new
methods to learn more effectively and retain knowledge they become empowered to
set higher and higher standards and expectations for themselves. The work ethic
grows. Reading more and attempting more complicated and complex problems
stimulates more abstract thinking. These breakthroughs increase their drive to
put more effort into conquering new academic challenges.
Regardless if a student has
a great academic aptitude, once the young adult enters college, there will be
many temptations to capture the student’s attention and time. Without the drive
and discipline to give sufficient effort and time to their studies, assignments
and meeting of all other personal reality demands the student is not going to
be successful. They need a large dose of passion to complete their degree
requirements. Many excellent, intelligent students lives will be less than their
full potential if they do not develop these traits.
Graduates who did everything
they needed to do to complete their requirements and more have proved to
themselves they would successfully hurdle the next life challenge. Each
accomplishment strengthens the discipline, personal goals and will power to
complete one’s future personal goals.
They will expand their
objectives by possessing the self-discipline, perseverance to obtain the
abilities to be successful. They have programmed themselves to do whatever it
takes, which is a winning formula.
Domenick Maglio, PhD.
is a columnist carried by various newspapers, an author of several books and
owner/director of Wider Horizons School, a college prep program. Dr. Maglio is
an author of weekly newspaper articles, INVASION WITHIN and a new just published book, entitled, IN
CHARGE PARENTING In a PC World. You can visit Dr. Maglio at
www.drmaglio.blogspot.com.
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