WITH AGE THERE IS OPPORTUNITY FOR WISDOM EVEN IN OUR CULTURE
WITH AGE THERE IS OPPORTUNITY FOR WISDOM EVEN IN OUR CULTURE
By Domenick J. Maglio PhD. Traditional Realist
Throughout the modern western world youth is worshipped.
They are perceived as carefree, smart and high-energy explorers of the world.
The majority of them are praised for their naturally cute actions and ability
to absorb incredible amounts of information. Their youthful appearance with flawlessly
smooth skin is the ultimate example of health and beauty.
The Hollywood media has ordained adolescents as the ultimate
prototype of humanity’s perfection. They have been placed on the highest
pedestal. Their parents become their unwavering fan club. They are showered
with presents and accolades for every thought uttered and every immature self
centered action and thought. These youngsters have become a materialistically
entitled class that does not have to earn their privileges and gifts that are
showered on them. The impulsive sexual, drugging and dramatic behaviors of
teenagers have spread to middle aged adults.
Youth has become our role model instead of mature adults. They
are honored for many things that come natural in this stage of life. Adult now
also want to imitate youngster’s spontaneous behaviors without thinking about
the impact on others. Things are said for their novelty and shock value instead
of to convey insight and truth. Too many adults are attempting to copy
youngsters’ looks and behaviors instead of sharing knowledge and advancing
their child’s potential for success in life.
Most adults are not only buying the next bigger and better
toy to entertain the youngsters but also themselves. Much money is spent on
cosmetic surgery and beauty products to look younger. These temporal and
superficial items cause us to work longer and harder in our often-meaningless positions.
We do not feel fulfilled, stimulated or challenged in these bureaucratic restricted
jobs. The social media, video games, sports and Hollywood indoctrination
monopolize the rest of our time, depriving our ability to contemplate and
appreciate the miraculous and wonderful things of our existence.
This emphasis on youthful fantasy culture is preventing many
adults from gaining the wisdom that comes from searching and understanding the
truth taught to us by daily dealing with reality. There is little time to
listen, observe, think and analyze what is happening before their eyes
everyday. These opportunities to integrate events are being lost in our phony-entertainment
reality world dished up by the media. Sex and violence are incessantly employed
to gain our undivided attention. We are bombarded by one lie after another in
advertising and in the media in our PC culture. Unfortunately dishonesty has
become a common element of doing business in this age.
Living longer lives does not necessarily lead to wisdom.
There are too many older adults who are self-centered takers, not givers. They
have squandered their time and money on the latest fad drugs and excursions to
nowhere. There are too many adults who have not learned from their experiences
to mature into knowing individuals who understand the consequences of their
actions before they do them.
Gaining knowledge of how the world works takes thorough and honest
evaluation of the events in our lives. As we analyze them and similar ones we
start seeing definite patterns of the way different behaviors get different
results. The wise person learns there are real important consequences for our
actions. They avoid behaviors that produce negative results and conscientiously
increase those that are advantageous ones.
These experiences teach us the importance of living in a
certain manner to stay on the straight and narrow path. This helps us reach a
higher level of humanity. This knowledge of the wise when passed on to others
betters the entire society. This is one of the reasons ancient societies all
over the world venerated the elderly. These nations would seek out the wisdom
of these people before making drastic decisions reshaping the direction of
their culture and society.
These elders passed on their knowledge and insights to their
children and grandchildren to strengthen the family unit. They were not viewed
as decrepit, worthless individuals that had to be locked up in segregated
facilities to fade away from everything and everyone. They were venerated as
special individuals who learn how to live effectively and correctly absorbing
the insights afforded them.
People with years of existence on earth who lived learning
the patterns of the reality of life are a phenomenal human resource that should
not be wasted. They are not as exciting as a new life with unlimited potential although
some of these elders have successfully reached their entire potential leaving
behind an extensive legacy. These incredible people have grasped the essence of
life and have given much to us to assist the development of others and the
society as a whole.
Domenick Maglio, PhD. is a columnist carried by various
newspapers, an author of several books and owner/director of Wider Horizons
School, a college prep program. You can visit Dr. Maglio at
www.drmaglio.blogspot.com.